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How to Join Sigma Alpha Epsilon (SAE): Complete Recruitment Guide 2025

Everything you need to know about joining SAE, one of America's most distinguished fraternities. Learn about the True Gentleman ideals and discover how to become part of this prestigious brotherhood from a former chapter president who led recruitment excellence.

January 18, 2025
15 min read
Brandon Hayes, SAE Alabama Alumnus

What You'll Learn About SAE

  • • The True Gentleman creed and SAE's founding values
  • • SAE's unique recruitment philosophy and process
  • • What sets SAE apart from other fraternities
  • • How to excel in SAE rush events and interviews
  • • The Phi Alpha associate member program
  • • Success stories from current brothers and alumni

About Brandon Hayes

Brandon Hayes is an SAE alumnus from the University of Alabama who served as Eminent Archon (chapter president) and led the chapter to multiple excellence awards. During his leadership, he revolutionized the recruitment process and helped establish standards that resulted in consistently strong pledge classes. Brandon now works in investment banking and serves as an active alumnus mentor for SAE chapters across the South.

About SAE: The Leading Fraternity Since 1856

Founded in 1856 at the University of Alabama, Sigma Alpha Epsilon is one of America's most prestigious fraternities with over 350,000 lifetime members and more than 230 active chapters. Known for producing leaders in business, government, and society, SAE has maintained its position as a premier fraternity for nearly 170 years.

The True Gentleman

SAE's defining creed that outlines the character and conduct expected of every member, emphasizing honor, integrity, and service.

Leadership Excellence

SAE has produced more Fortune 500 CEOs, politicians, and community leaders than most other fraternities combined.

Children's Miracle Network

SAE's international philanthropy partnership has raised millions for children's hospitals and medical research.

Notable Alumni

Alumni include William McKinley, Paddy Chayefsky, and countless business leaders who exemplify the True Gentleman ideal.

The True Gentleman: SAE's Foundation

The True Gentleman creed, written by John Walter Wayland, defines what it means to be an SAE. This isn't just a motto – it's a way of life that guides every decision and interaction:

The True Gentleman Creed

"The True Gentleman is the man whose conduct proceeds from good will and an acute sense of propriety, and whose self-control is equal to all emergencies; who does not make the poor man conscious of his poverty, the obscure man of his obscurity, or any man of his inferiority or deformity; who is himself humbled if necessity compels him to humble another; who does not flatter wealth, cringe before power, or boast of his own possessions or achievements; who speaks with frankness but always with sincerity and sympathy; whose deed follows his word; who thinks of the rights and feelings of others, rather than his own; and who appears well in any company, a man with whom honor is sacred and virtue safe."

- John Walter Wayland

SAE's Recruitment Philosophy and Process

SAE recruitment focuses on finding men who already embody or have the potential to develop True Gentleman qualities. The process is comprehensive and designed to ensure mutual fit:

Phase 1: Early Interest and Relationship Building (4-6 weeks before rush)

  • • Attend SAE information nights and campus presence events
  • • Participate in informal activities like intramural sports or study sessions
  • • Meet brothers through campus organizations and leadership positions
  • • Submit preliminary application with academic and leadership background
  • • Begin demonstrating alignment with True Gentleman values in daily interactions

Phase 2: Formal Recruitment Week

  • Welcome Reception: Meet all brothers and learn about SAE's mission
  • True Gentleman Workshop: Deep exploration of SAE values and expectations
  • Leadership Showcase: Present chapter achievements and member accomplishments
  • Service Project: Participate in community service reflecting SAE values
  • Final Interviews: One-on-one conversations with chapter officers

Phase 3: Phi Alpha Associate Member Program

  • • Accept your bid and begin comprehensive education program
  • • Complete Phi Alpha curriculum focused on True Gentleman development
  • • Participate in leadership training and personal development workshops
  • • Build strong bonds with your associate member class
  • • Prepare for initiation and full brotherhood (typically 8-14 weeks)

What SAE Looks for in Members

From my experience as Eminent Archon, here are the key qualities that successful SAE recruits demonstrate:

Exemplary Character

Men of honor, integrity, and moral courage who naturally embody True Gentleman principles in their daily lives.

Academic Excellence

Strong academic performance and intellectual curiosity. Most SAE chapters require a minimum 3.0 GPA for membership.

Leadership Ability

Demonstrated leadership experience and potential to lead others effectively and ethically.

Social Grace

Ability to interact respectfully and effectively with people from all backgrounds and social situations.

Service Commitment

Genuine desire to serve others and make a positive impact on the community and world.

Ambition and Drive

Clear goals and the determination to achieve excellence in all endeavors while maintaining ethical standards.

How to Excel in SAE Recruitment

Insider Tips from a Former Eminent Archon

  • Memorize the True Gentleman creed: Understand its meaning and be able to discuss how it applies to your life
  • Research SAE's history: Know the founding story, significant milestones, and chapter achievements
  • Demonstrate gentleman qualities: Show respect, courtesy, and kindness in every interaction
  • Highlight leadership experience: Share specific examples of leading teams, projects, or initiatives
  • Show academic commitment: Discuss your major, career goals, and intellectual interests
  • Ask thoughtful questions: Inquire about opportunities for growth, service, and leadership
  • Be consistent: Your character should be evident in every conversation and interaction

The Phi Alpha Experience

Once you receive and accept a bid, you'll begin SAE's comprehensive associate member program called Phi Alpha, designed to prepare you for lifelong brotherhood:

Core Curriculum

  • • SAE history and founding principles
  • • True Gentleman development workshops
  • • Leadership skills training
  • • Academic success strategies
  • • Brotherhood bonding activities
  • • Community service projects
  • • Professional development sessions

Expected Growth

  • • Deep understanding of SAE values
  • • Enhanced leadership capabilities
  • • Strong bonds with associate member class
  • • Mentorship from initiated brothers
  • • Preparation for future responsibilities
  • • Development of lifelong friendships
  • • Foundation for post-graduation success

Investment in SAE Brotherhood

Typical SAE Costs (Per Semester)

  • National Dues: $400-$500 paid to SAE National
  • Chapter Dues: $600-$1,800 depending on chapter and location
  • Initiation Fees: $400-$800 for badge, certificate, and materials
  • Social Events: $250-$700 for formals, brotherhood activities, and functions
  • SAE Merchandise: $200-$500 for letters, formal wear, and fraternity items

Note: Many chapters offer merit-based scholarships and flexible payment options for members in good standing.

SAE True Gentleman Success Story

"Joining SAE at Alabama changed my life trajectory. The True Gentleman creed became my personal philosophy, guiding every decision from college through my business career. The brotherhood provided mentorship, opportunities, and lifelong friendships that have been invaluable. The leadership training I received as an SAE directly contributed to my success as a CEO. More importantly, SAE taught me that true success means lifting others up along the way."
- Robert Chen, SAE Alabama '18, Tech Startup CEO

Start Your SAE Journey

Ready to Explore SAE Membership?

  • ✓ Learn about your local SAE chapter through their official website
  • ✓ Attend recruitment events and information sessions
  • ✓ Connect with current brothers and ask about their experiences
  • ✓ Study the True Gentleman creed and reflect on its meaning
  • ✓ Prepare examples of how you demonstrate leadership and character

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